Help me understand Asperger's
My cousin adopted a little boy when he was just over a year old. He is now about 6, but for the last 5 years things have been very rough for her. She is a single mother that wanted a child more than anything in the world.
She would bring her son to the doctor because we all knew somthing was not quite right... but did not know what it was. There were tantrums, times that we thought he was ignoring us even though we were talking right to him, break downs when he did not eat a certain food at the exact time he wanted it...
Just last year a new doctor diagnosed him with Asperger's. I would like some help understanding what this is so I can help them plan a Disney trip. They would like to go next year and they asked me for suggestions for the trip. I would love to help with her DS too.
He is now attending classes to help him in social situations and to help him communicate. He is able to speak but has a hard time expressing himself. We did find out that part of the reason we thought he was ignoring us is that he does not understand things that are not worded very clear. For instance if we would say "time to go" he would ignore us. We now have to say "go get in the car so we can go home". Everything has to be crystal clear.
Thanks!!
helpful advice for kids on the spectrum
I have two children with high functioning PDD, daughter 10 and a son 13. We take a DISNEY vacation every year and have never had a problem. We always stay at the FW cabins, it's like a home away from home. My blood pressure drops 10 points just driving in. Go to Wal-mart and stock up on groceries, and your kids favorites.
Here's a typical day...make breakfast at the cabin...take rental car( always have your own car) to TTC then monorail to MK. YOU know that our kids can't wait very well and stress out over just about everything so waiting for busses is not an option for us. SO THAT BEING SAID...GO to CITY HALL to GUEST SERVICES and get the Special needs GUEST ASSIST PASS. remember that you may need documentation, especially if your child looks typical. My DD's autism is mild but apparent. THIS PASS will allow you to use the fast pass lane immediately, and in some cases like Big Thunder you actually go into the ride thru the exit. NO WAITING!!!! THis is a huge help for our family as our kids can't do lines, and avoids meltdows, scenes, tantrums, ect...
Break up the day...if by noon they are overstimulated then go back to the cabin have a cook out, dip in the pool, nap. Then we are ready for a show or Epcot at night. :mickey:
ALSo use the NEVERLAND CLUB at the Polynesian Resort!!!!!! It's a supervised child care. My kids love the dinner buffet, mac and cheese, pizza, corn on the cob, movies, crafts and games. It goes to age 12 and I just let the staff know that my child is special needs and they have ALWAYS been exceptional. My son was anxious once and staff used the beeper to reach us and we picked him up...the next night he was fine.
Take a trail ride at the FW...Staff was fabulous with my daughter.
HAVE FUN...ASK FOR HELP AND DISNEY WILL MEET YOUR SPECIAL NEEDS :mickey::number1:
Good advice, here's my bit
I'm a special education teacher who works with students with ASD (autism spectrum disorders). I also have an 11yo nephew with ASD. Here are my suggestions for WDW. I would get a book with detailed info. about the rides and other tidbits of info. Read about the rides so you know which ones are loud or too bright or flashing lights. Be prepared with earplugs or a hoodie or sunglasses so your nephew can block out the stimuli that may bother him. Read the book or get ideas here for quieter places in each park so that if your nephew needs a break, you'll know where to go. Ignore any stares. You know what is best for your loved one and the gawkers don't. And remember you might think someone is staring but maybe they're actually commiserating. Consider staying onsite so that you can get back to your room quickly if necessary - and others in your group can meet up with you later. Bring snacks and drinks or purchase and keep nearby so that if he needs to eat quickly you are ready. Bring that GameBoy or other hand held item if he likes that sort of thing so he can "zone" if necessary while in line or otherwise. Do what you gotta do! You know your loved one best, so just anticipate his needs. Going during an off time would be great. We brought our family the week after Martin Luther King Day and LOVED the nearly zero crowds. Have a great trip.