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The All Time Biggest WDW Resort Question!!
Here it is, the dilemma I face each trip.
Me, Mr. Disney himself would stay in a carboard box next to the dumpster outside the food court at the All Star Music resort if it guaranteed me a full week at WDW. My wife on the other hand would rather spend 3 nights at a Deluxe resort than 7 days in the previously mentioned cardboard box.
So here we are, the battle of the sexes, Husband vs. Wife in a battle to the death (of me)on where and how long to stay!
I, being Mr. Disney made the mistake of booking the POR for 7 days, (with free dining mind you) from 8/26-9/1. My wonderful wife, Mrs. Trump, said, and I quote, "I do not want to stay there, I just don't like it. I would rather stay less time at the Beach Club than more time at the POR". This coming from a woman who has stayed at the POR twice before and said it was "ok" which coming from her says something!
So I being a husband and knowing who ultimately calls the shots (because an unhappy wife on vacation makes for an unhappy husband!) changed it from 7 days at POR to 6 days at the BC for $700 more. A mere drop in the bucket for Mrs. Gates.
So please help me. Good decision to upgrade and lose a day or bad decision to lose a day but upgrade to a beautiful resort?
P.S. Anyone know a good divorce lawyer?
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Remember your THE MAN, You are in charge... Ok, now that that statement is overwith I hope my wife doesnt read this. Seriously though, I would not sacrifice even a day for a nicer resort. If we stay at Disney for a week but need to do it with less money we would NOT hesitate to stay at all star movies. The time we are there is VERY important to us. If i were you...Id try to convince my wife that the extra day is worth it. My wife on the other hand does EVERYTHING i tell her.
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1) Procedure
. . . club her
. . . grab her hair
. . . drag her back to the cave
. . . let her know time at Disney is more important
2) Seriously, I believe it is length of time that counts.
3) You don't spend THAT much time in the room.
4) If you do, then stay at the Ritz Carlton.
NOTE: Mrs Rusty just came in and saw my reply. I formally recant Item #1, but stand by Items #2-#4.
Average Banjo Picker. Pretty-Good Sailing Master. Newly Ordained.
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A wife chimes in
Female perspective coming so WATCH OUT!!!! We are the opposite in our family (I'll be joining you in that cardboard box with my 2 kids!) so DH is the one who believes that the deluxe resorts are the only way to go. He is not a big Disney fan like me and the kids so if he can enjoy his vacation(and the resort atmosphere) while we enjoy the Disney-ness it seems like a fair compromise. We only get to go every 3 yrs but this way everyone enjoys. If doing as much Disney as possible is your goal, maybe go without your DW (heck it would save on airfare and park tickets too!). But if going on vacation and enjoying Disney (as much or as little) WITH your wife is what is important, bend a little. You are only losing one day.
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Don't you need to stay at least 5 nights for the free dining? As much as I'd love to stay Wilderness Lodge, I prefer to stay the longer time. So I stay at the values instead. I'm with you.
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Originally Posted by jakeybake
P.S. Anyone know a good divorce lawyer?
I'm pretty good, but I'm not licensed in Massachusetts.
"They've done research you know...60% of the time, it works every time"
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I know that everyone is different, but personally I would be willing to stay one day less at WDW in a resort that I knew I was going to enjoy over one that I knew I would not. To me, the resort is very important because we spend quite a bit of time there (including afternoon breaks). If the trade-off was several days at WDW lost then I would not go for the deluxe, but at only one day then I would go for it.
Mike
Trips: 1983,1986,1988,1991 - Off-site
Jan 2001 - WL
Nov 2004 - WL
Sep 2005 - AKL
Sep 2007 - Poly
May 2009 - CBR
May 2010 - Poly
Oct 2010 - Pop
May 2012 - BC
Next trip May 2014 - BC
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Since it’s only one day I say it’s worth it. She’ll be happy and I’m sure you are going to love the Beach Club. Plus you’ll make up lots of time since you can walk to Epcot and MGM and take the monorail to MK and not have to worry about buses except for Animal Kingdom. I’m sure you won’t make up a whole days worth of time, but the Beach Club is defiantly one of the more convenient resorts. If you had to lose multiple days then my answer might change but for one day…I say it’s worth it since you’re wife will be happy! And that’s the most important part!
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Amber
62 Miles from the Magic!!!!
Stayed at: All Stars Sports, Music and Movies; Dixie Landings; Port Orleans; Pop Century; Yacht Club
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Oh my lord, this is such an EASY Dilemma to resolve.
1. Don't drop a day from the trip from 7 to 6. Increase it from 7 to 8.
2. Tell the DW to find a way to get the additional $1400 to stay the BC.
I don't come from money and do enjoy luxuries at times. But at some point, luxury and needs tend to diverge. If your wife works, let her know what she will have to give up to get it or how much overtime she needs to work.
1 Week at Wyndham Bonnet Creek 06/17/17 - 06/24/17; 1 Week at Orange Lake Resort 06/24/17 - 06/30/17; 1 week at OKW 12/03/17 - 12/10/17
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I thought about saving money and staying someplace cheaper than WL, but I decided we were saving so much with free dining, that I could justify the extra expense. Maybe go to WL or AKL instead of the pricier deluxe resorts? As long as you leave enough time to do everything you want to do at the parks, I don't see why cutting a day is bad. Maybe if you say at those two resorts mentioned, you would not have to cut a day out of the vacation. Good luck.
1977 Ft.Wilderness
1980 Ft.Wilderness
1987 Off Site
1992 Off Site
1997 Disney Institute-Honeymoon
September 2006 PORS
Sept 2007 Wilderness Lodge!!!!
August 2009 POP Century
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I think the upgrade with one less park day is worth it if it's going to make that much difference to your spouse. I think missing a park day with a happy spouse is much better then an unhappy spouse for 7 days.
~ Christine
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I forgot to mention that my wife owns her own business (hair salon with 3 people who work for her) and when she said that she wanted to upgrade she said immdiately after, "And I want to pay the difference out of my salon money.". So that is all set. For me it's not about the money, it's about the days. We are one of those married couple where all of our money is the same, no separate accounts so mine is hers and hers is mine.
We are far from wealthy but $700 won't kill us, especially for the 4 of us (DS- 9, DD - 6) but just knowing on the day that I'm leaving that I would still be there the next day will give me agita (an Italian word for aggravation).
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I suppose I'm a bad one to respond to this.
The only benefit I can see to staying at a Deluxe resort, is the opportunity to unnecessarily spend more money. I don't see how I could possibly need anything more than what is offered by the moderates, and I certainly can't justify the additional expense. Frankly, I find the setting, and the overall environment at POR (or POFQ) to be much preferred to some of the Deluxes I've seen.
Luckily, my wife and I are apparently on the same level of neediness. The Value resorts are just fine with both of us, and the Moderates are nice for the occasional step up. But neither of us need the extra "fluff".
One day is not REALLY that bid a deal, and you are correct, your own potential for happiness is directly related to hers. And it sounds to me like compromise is translated to "do it my way".
Marker from MO
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Originally Posted by jakeybake
Me, Mr. Disney himself would stay in a carboard box next to the dumpster outside the food court at the All Star Music resort if it guaranteed me a full week at WDW.
I wouldn't even need the cardboard box for the week. Seriously, I love the Disney resorts but if staying in a moderate gave me the extra day I'd take the extra day.
74 Off Site
98 Contemporary & DCL inaugural cruise
99 Dixie Landings
00 Dixie Landings
01 POR & DCL
02 AKL & DCL
03 VB
04 DL GC
05 ASSp, VWL, GF
06 POFQ, CSR, OKW
07 ASMo & VWL
08 Pop VWL
09 BW, POR, VWL, CSR
10 WL
12 VWL, AKL Club
13 VWL, WL Club
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Dear Mr. Disney...
Don't be cheap. Spend the do re me. It's vacation for cryin out loud. You cannot compare the mod with the deluxe, its not even a horserace. As for Mrs. Trump... if she gives you any more ****, make her ride "It's A Small World" till the park closes.
Trips planned for 2016......
January..... Offfsite... Golf outing
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Have your cake & eat it too!
Send the Mrs. home a day earlier and stay in your cardboard box the last day! Whatever you do, have fun!
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I say that the trade off was a good one. I would rather enjoy a vacation where everyone can be happy rather than spend one more day in Disney. My family usually stays at Disney for six days, and we always have enough time to enjoy ourselves. As you previously mentioned you have been to Disney a number of times... realize that you will be back and one day will not matter that much. Another thing that could possibly work... what about adding a day at a value just for one night!?!?!?! The cost would be minimal... you could add it on the last day of your trip and when you buy tickets at the beach club just get an extra one. While you would have to pay for food for that one day (no free dinning plan) the extra cost would not be huge!
SSR 07
BC 07, 08, 09
Grand Flo 94, 06, 07
Poly 91 & 2006
WL 2005, 2006, 08
Ft. W. Cabins 93 & 2004
P.O. Riverside 2000
AKL 98
AKL- Kidani village 09
CR. 97
Yacht Club 95
Dixie Landings 92
Fort Wilderness Campground 89
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I think you made the right choice for the Beach Club. It's only one day and, as someone who is sort of a deluxe snob, if you want to stay deluxe, the moderates just don't cut it. They are perfectly nice, but they are so huge and sprawled out and motel-style set-up of the buildings is a huge turnoff. If your wife doesn't want to deal with that, she is not going to be a happy camper on your trip and that will ruin the entire trip. You will wish you could leave after day 2 if she isn't on board. If you can afford the $700 without too much trouble, I would definitely stay one less day to stay at the BC.
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My last family trip was me, DH, DS and my Mom. We stayed at POLY and all my DH did was complain! Not enough bartenders and he had to wait for a drink! No place to drink in the MK. Wants to leave the parks dailt when HE has seen'done everything on HIS list. I wish I could say I'm kidding but I'm not. My Mom swore she'd NEVER come with us again. His attitude ruined our trip. So, for me, I would do whatever I could to not have THAT experience again.
On that note, DH informed me this past weekend that he wants a divorce. I'm trying to hold it together and find things I can hold on to so I don't fall apart. One thing that I am holding on to is that he won't ruin any future trips (like my 50th B-day celebration on Oct) and MAYBE my Mom will come after all.
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