Daddy and 3.5 Year Old Daughter Trip - No Mommy - Crazy?

[MidnTPK]

I'm thinking of doing a WDW trip in early December - just me and my little girl, who will be three and a half then. Has anybody personally done this? Have tips on how to manage it? Strongly advise me against it?

Background: my wife has to go to the UK this December to be the matron-of-honor in her close friend's wedding. I'm thinking of doing a daddy-daughter trip while my wife is away. The wife is fine with this plan.

But if there's a consensus that this is a lot harder than I think it is, my planning for our June trip might change.

More background: we're not going to do our fall trip this year because my wife is pregnant (due in late August with our second). I'm thinking this would be a nice way to have some special time with her after she's had to go adjust to the new family dynamic.

[SallyMcQueen]

My husband has never done this particularly but he has taken our daughter to all sorts of events and he has had a great time. I don't think your crazy and I think your daughter will talk about her special trip with her dad for many years to come. And frankly try to spend as much time with her as you can before your second child comes along. We have two kids who are 3.5 years apart and that baby will take up a lot of time that you would normally have spent with your older child. So take what you can get now.

Good luck!

[BigRedDad]

I would do it in a heartbeat. Know your limits and your daughter's limits. Since you will be together 24/7, you will need plenty of rest and she will too. Set a plan for when things get a little antsy. If she is getting restless, find one of the playground areas and let her run wild. Use the resort pools to wear her out a little before a nap. See if you can arrange a baby sitter or kids club one night. This will give you a little time away for part of a night.

[Dizneydreamin']

Do it!!! It sounds like it would be a great trip. I wish my husband would take my DD6 to Disney, but unfortunately he doesn't like Disney.

[Madame Leona]

I think it is a wonderful idea!!! I did a lot with my dad when I was little and we had such a strong relationship. I lost him two years ago this month but I'm so happy to have the memories. Just scope out where the family restrooms are in advance. You probably don't want her in the men's room and she is way too little to tackle the ladies room alone. Have a great trip.

[g8rgirl29]

Go for it!! It will be a wonderful special time for Daddy and his girl!! I took DD 5 for a Mommy and girl trip this past January and we had a blast. It was a lot of fun, we did 4 parks in 4 days. Happy planning and have a great trip!!

[TikiGoddess]

I took my 3 year old to Disney by myself (I'm the mom). We met my brother there with his wife and 3 yr old son, so technically we weren't alone.

The only snafu in the plan was that my daughter got sick the first night we were there . I don't deal well with so it was nice to have my brother there to help out. He even took our rental car and got ginger ale, crackers, etc. from offsite.

Looking back, the only thing I would have done differently would be to make sure we took naps every afternoon. I am the commando in the family and my husband usually slows me down... at the end of the long weekend my DD and I were both very tired from very full days.

I think if you take your time and go at your daughter's pace, you will be fine!

Kathy

[Georgesgirl1]

That sounds amazing. My dad and I never took a trip to WDW alone, but I really cherish the memories of the things we did just the two of us. It would especially be nice for her to have that attention after the new baby arrives. I would say go for it and have fun!

[Jennifer_and_Chris]

I say TOTALLY!!!! What a great father you are to want to do this with your DD.

Just remember a few things...

If your wife is the photographer, remember to take that roll. Take lots of pictures! Or better yet, do the photopass and take pictures every possible place you can.

If your wife is the nurturer, remember to take that roll. Sounds like you already are a great dad but, sometimes only mommy will do. Take note of how she nurtures and soothes your daughter adn remember to do that. I'm a HUGE hugger and kisser and "I love you" teller. My kids come to me first when they need cuddling or extra TLC. My DH does his fair share yet, again, sometimes you just need your mommy. Be prepared how to handle this and what to do to be "mommy" for her if needed.

I think its great. And if it were me, I wouldn't dare let them go to Disney without me! I'd be toooooooo jealous!!! haahaa...

[homeschool mom]

I think that's an awesome idea! What a great time for you and your little girl. Go for it and enjoy!

[biodtl]

It's a great idea! Make sure you take a lot of photos to help her remember her special dad/daughter trip.

[Joannelet]

I commend you for even coming up with this idea and how you are going to spend that time with your daughter.
I do think that its a wonderful idea. TIme with her is so precious right now especially once the baby comes. She will still need that one on one time with both of you and this is such a great gift.
So take her and make great memories with your little girl Before you know it she'll be grown and you will have such great memories to fall back on

[scootch713]

I took my girls by myself when they were 2 1/2 and 5... from Ohio, hubby thought I was nuts, but he teaches and thus can only go in the summer or over a holiday. We have been doing it every year since(6 years in a row!) Go for it!

[WDW Addict]

Sounds like a great trip! I have been debating on taking my 5 yr old son by myself, I'm dad, so you'll have to post how your trip goes ...Have Fun!!

[Patricia]

I've been alone with 3 young boys a couple of times. The airports were more stressful (due to boredom) than the parks.

You'll be fine. It's the easiest vacation to do with a young child. You play, eat, nap, play, eat, sleep and start all over again.

[MidnTPK]

Thanks for all the encouragement. The planning will start soon!!

You'll be fine. It's the easiest vacation to do with a young child. You play, eat, nap, play, eat, sleep and start all over again.

This was a big part of my thinking. WDW is such an easy place to spend quality time with toddlers/little ones. My thinking was I'd much rather be on vacation in a place designed for fun, then have to figure out the things near home to do with her while mom is away. Plus we'd have to figure out child care while Mom is away (my wife is a stay-at-home-mom). This seemed to me to be a win-win situation.

[BigRedDad]

It is definitely a win-win situation.

If you think we want or need some alone time, you could look into a baby sitter service for a few hours. From what I have read, the private sitters are very good. Also, some resorts have a kid zone where you can drop them off as well for a fee.

[faline]

What a great plan! You and your daughter will certainly create some wonderful memories which you will both cherish in years to come!

Keep in mind, Disney does have companion bathrooms available which might be helpful to you.

[Pooh Fan]

My wife, son and I had a trip planned for September 2008. We found out in April/08 she was pregnant and she wasn't fond of doing Disney at 7 months pregnant. We didn't want to break our sons heart so I took him (then 4) to Disney. We had an awesome time. A really relaxed week, lots of pool time, naps and a waterpark day that he still talks about. Every night we would set up the computer and use Skype to talk to mom back at home and tell her about our day. I know this created special memories for him and quite honestly it did for me as well.

[eas423]

I say TOTALLY!!!! What a great father you are to want to do this with your DD.

Just remember a few things...

If your wife is the photographer, remember to take that roll. Take lots of pictures! Or better yet, do the photopass and take pictures every possible place you can.

If your wife is the nurturer, remember to take that roll. Sounds like you already are a great dad but, sometimes only mommy will do. Take note of how she nurtures and soothes your daughter adn remember to do that. I'm a HUGE hugger and kisser and "I love you" teller. My kids come to me first when they need cuddling or extra TLC. My DH does his fair share yet, again, sometimes you just need your mommy. Be prepared how to handle this and what to do to be "mommy" for her if needed.

I think its great. And if it were me, I wouldn't dare let them go to Disney without me! I'd be toooooooo jealous!!! haahaa...

Love the points Jennifer brought up!

I think this is such a sweet idea, go for it!!!