Quantcast I can't believe I'm considering cancelling
 
INTERCOT: Walt Disney World Vacation Planning Guide Walt Disney World Disney Cruise Line Mousehut Mail WebDisney News INTERCOT: Walt Disney World Vacation Guide
News Discussion Theme Parks Resorts Info Central Shop Interactive Podcast INTERCOT Navigtion
Site Sponsors
  magical journeys travel agency
  INTERCOT shop

INTERCOT Affiliates
  disney magicbands & accessories
  disneystore.com
  disney fathead
  disney check designs
  amazon.com
  priceline.com

News
  site search
  headlines
  past updates
  discussion boards
  email update

INTERCOT Other
  advertising
  sponsors
  link to us
  contact us
     

INTERCOT Ads
 

 
 

Results 1 to 7 of 7
  1. #1
    Join Date
    Jan 2008
    Location
    South Jersey
    Posts
    475
    Post Thanks / Like

    Default I can't believe I'm considering cancelling

    I booked a week in Sept last year on the bounce-back free dining offer. Then we wound up in the World in May for oldest step-son's graduation, and again in July for my 40th birthday. Now, DH doesn't want to go in Sept. With the older kids being in school, it really is easier if he stayed home, so we don't have to find family members to keep them and get them to school every day. I still want to go, and he's fine with me going without him. It would be me and DS4. The problem is, DS4 can be a handful. I would not even feel good about taking a shower in the bathroom without him being right in my line of sight. I've been looking for someone to go with us, but with free dining, quite a few of the people I would ask already have trips booked. Rescheduling isn't really an option, since I booked this trip right before my AP expires.

    So, my options are taking DS4 alone, leaving DS4 home and going by myself, or cancelling all together. I REALLY want to go to MNSSHP.
    COUNTLESS times as a kid
    92, 93, 95, 97, 98, 00, 03 (Honeymoon), 06 off site
    94 CB
    9/07 ASM
    2/08, 9/08,11/08, 5/09, 9/09, 8/10, 8/11 Pop
    7/09 SSR
    1/10, 7/10 BWV
    11/10, 5/12 AKLV
    1/12, 8/12, 2/13, 6/13 OKW

    upcoming trips
    12/13 AKLV

    DVC owner at AKLV and SSR

  2.     Please Support INTERCOT's Sponsors:
  3. #2
    Join Date
    Jan 2007
    Posts
    165
    Post Thanks / Like

    Default

    I'm sure there are lots of people here who would go with you.

    Really though, I would go for it! Wouldn't it be fun for you and DS to be in the world together! I understand what you are saying though about leaving him alone while you take a shower and such.

    Hope maybe you come up with a family/friend who gets to go! I'd day go for it and let your DS4 take the lead.

    Yeah, I can never say no to a Disney trip!

    Poly Dec 2010
    CR Dec. 2009
    POR Sept. 2008
    POP & AKL June 2007
    WDW Dolphin July 2006
    WDW Dolphin March 2002


    Treehouse Villas as a kid...that's where it all began!

  4. #3
    Join Date
    Jan 2008
    Location
    South Jersey
    Posts
    475
    Post Thanks / Like

    Default

    the problem with my DS is that since we've been there so much, the thrill is gone for him. It was a fight to get him out of the hotel room, because all he wanted to do was stay in the room and play with his trains.

    Yes, he's a wierd kid.
    COUNTLESS times as a kid
    92, 93, 95, 97, 98, 00, 03 (Honeymoon), 06 off site
    94 CB
    9/07 ASM
    2/08, 9/08,11/08, 5/09, 9/09, 8/10, 8/11 Pop
    7/09 SSR
    1/10, 7/10 BWV
    11/10, 5/12 AKLV
    1/12, 8/12, 2/13, 6/13 OKW

    upcoming trips
    12/13 AKLV

    DVC owner at AKLV and SSR

  5. #4
    Join Date
    May 2007
    Location
    Chicago, IL
    Posts
    10
    Post Thanks / Like

    Default

    He doesn't sound weird, he may have just had too much of a good thing this year. It sounds like you really want to go for yourself, so maybe you should go on your own. But otherwise, WDW isn't going anywhere. You could rebook a trip (obviously not for the same deal you received) for MNSSHP next year when your son might be more excited cause he won't have been there as much. I know the excitement of getting a great deal thru Disney and the general happy feeling I get, but it sounds like there will be a lot going on for you family in September. Since you've already been multiple times this year, maybe you can save the money for a trip next year when your son will have more time to get excited again. Just my

  6. #5
    Join Date
    May 2005
    Location
    South Georgia
    Posts
    807
    Post Thanks / Like

    Default

    Okay if your son is really that way, which I understand I have seen it in my sister's kids, they begin to "love" to hotels. Anyway, I would try to find a friend to go with. Which I think Daisyhead mentioned there are many of us that would just drop everything and help you out there.
    Or, and I can't believe I would ever utter the words, (don't tell DH) I guess cancel would be the next thing to do. You are going back again, and you have been recently.
    Oh, another idea... maybe if you still want to go alone, with it being in the free dining time, maybe someone else here will be going. You could post something here and find out, maybe meet up with some people from intercot for a day or two and even a couple of meals so you wouldn't be entirely alone. Especially if you were going to go to the MNSSHP? Just an idea.
    I get a little carried away sometimes.
    May 82 Offsite
    April 89 Honeymoon
    June 95 DD 1st Trip
    Dec 00 DS 1st Trip
    April 04 Coronado Springs
    May 05 Pop
    June 05 PO Riverside
    Oct 05 POR
    Dec 05 FW Cabin
    Feb 06 Caribbean Beach
    May 06 POR
    July 06 Bonnet Creek
    Jan 07 BonCk
    Dec 07 ASM/AK Lodge
    Nov 08 ASM
    Feb 09 FW
    Dec 09
    April 10 FW

  7. #6
    Join Date
    Jul 2005
    Location
    Connecticut
    Posts
    15,837
    Post Thanks / Like

    Default

    My Disney style is that I enjoy it with my loved ones. With my kids, or alone with my husband. I couldn't leave the kids behind until recently, now that they're both older teens, and even that just once so far. I could never feel comfortable leaving some behind in school and going with the younger one. I'll probably never go without my husband. It just isn't my style, so I would cancel. Obviously, you have a different style and this might work for you. It's hard to advise. I think you just have to go with your gut instinct.
    Sherri
    Next: Aulani Celebration 10/2018 (50th)
    Past Stays: Contemporary, GF, Poly, BC, POP, POR, Dolphin, AKL Kidani, BLT
    1990 August Honeymoon- GF
    Delighted Disney Return Guest since 1981, DVC (BLT) since 2014


  8. #7
    Join Date
    Apr 2006
    Location
    LAFITTE, LA, UNITED STATES( 674 MILES AWAY)
    Posts
    1,684
    Post Thanks / Like

    Default

    take the younger son and have a good time, i know you say he is a handful but since its just the two of you, you can take your time and do things at your own pace, wait till he naps to take your shower and leave the door open in case he wakes up, or take showers late at night after long days in the parks when you get back to the room have him take a bath and im sure hell knock out and then you could shower, im sure he'll enjoy going and having the parks and you all to his self
    Jimmy

    Co-Host: The Disney Nerds Podcast

Share This Thread On Social Media:

Share This Thread On Social Media:

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  

 
Company
Advertising
Guest Relations
Community
Discussion Boards
Podcast
Newsletter
Shop
Social
Facebook
Twitter
Instagram
YouTube
Pinterest
Subscribe to our Newsletter
Enter your email address below to receive our newsletter:
INTERCOT Logo PRIVACY STATEMENT / DISCLAIMER | DISCUSSION BOARD RULES
© Since 1997 INTERCOT - a Levelbest Communications Website. This is not an official Disney website.
> Levelbest Network Site