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Needing some Pixie Dust...
I am going through a really hard time at the moment. Many of you heard me talk about my boyfriend at ICOT 15 and here on the boards. Well today he ended our relationship, which completely took me by surprise. He felt our relationship was going in two different directions and he couldn't give me the commitment. "he wasn't ready." I won't get into it completely but needless to say I am shocked and devastated that this is happening. We were together four years and although I knew we weren't headed toward marriage for a while, this was the last thing I ever saw coming from him.
I have been through breakups and heartache like this before and I know that I will be ok, but I just have a really hard time letting go of a person who had been my rock through some of the worst times of my life. I have a great family and very supportive friends to lean on and I am thankful for that. I know my situation isn't nearly as terrible as what many others are going though, like the aftermath of Sandy for example. It's still just going to be really, really hard.
~Nikki~
Last Trip: February 2024
Next Trips: April 2024
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Oh Nikki,
I am so sorry. It just stinks to be blindsided and I understand how much it hurts when you find out everything you were expecting isn't there any more.
I know there is nothing I can say to make you feel better, but here is a little pixie dust. I'll be thinking of you.
Cindy aka AgentC
INTERCOT Staff: Accommodations, Dining, Movies, TV, Music & Musicals
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Nikki, I'm so sorry! That really stinks!! When I was going through a difficult time, a friend gave me a little plate that says "Everything happens for a reason". I keep that plate in my office as a reminder that things often work out better than we think when things are at their worst.
Linda aka: Faline
INTERCOT Staff: Vacation Planning,Trip Reports and Disney Camping
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Nikki, that just stinks. I'm so sorry! Every day you'll feel a little better, and then like Linda said, you'll see that everything happens for a reason. Hang in there, and like Maryanne said, stay busy!!!
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I agree with everything the previous posters have said. You seem to have your head on straight and are thinking logically about this. It bites and it hurts. Wish it didn't have to be that way. Try to stay busy and go out with friends. Tomorrow is always just a day away.
Sean
DL - '72, '74
WDW - '84, '85, '86, Honeymoon '90, '93, '96, '00, '01, '03, '04, 2x '05, '06, 2x '10, 2x '11, 10x'12, 2x '13
Booked for February 22-27
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Oh Nikki, I am SO sorry... ... I wish there was more I could say or do, I can't imagine how difficult it is when something comes out of the blue like that. It's one thing when you can see it coming - but when it blindsides you, it's even worse. Like everyone else has said, things happen for a reason, and I know you know that... you are a strong, smart, really level-headed person and I know you'll get through this... but it still hurts, and I'm sorry. If you want to get together, remember that I'm not that far away... we all have strong shoulders here for you, but if you need "real" one, just give me a text/call/PM.
Hang in there, this all must mean that there is someone/something even better out there waiting for you.
Blythe
Past trips -
3x offsite,May 06 CBR,Oct 07 I'cot 10,Dec 08 CBR,Jan 09 ASMu,Oct 09 CBR/AKL,Jan 11 AsMu,Aug 11 CBR, Oct 11 AKL,Oct 12 I'cot 15,Aug 13 CBR,Aug '14 mini AKL trip
Next -
May '17 DL OR June '17 CBR
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I'm so sorry Nikki!!! There isn't anything I can say or do to make you feel better, but know we are all here for you!
Meg
40 trips (plus two to Disneyland, and one to Disneyland Paris) and counting!
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Oh Nikki - so sorry that you are going through this and I too Ditto all of the previous posts! You WILL get through this, but it may not seem like that right now. With each passing day it will get a little less difficult although it may not seem that way right now. And remember you are a strong and beautiful woman and there is so much to look forward to for you!
Melissa
"I'm Goofy for Mickey"
2008 - Dolphin, 2010 - Port Orleans, 2011 - Coronado Springs, 2012 - Beach Club, 2013 - Beach Club, Next Trip Oct 2014 - My first trip to Disneyland!!!
"The way to get started is to quit talking and begin doing." - Walt Disney
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We'll Go On....Off To Neverland
Wishes!
It's A Great Big Beautiful Tomorrow....Where Dreams Really Do Come True
Never Forget It was All Started By A Mouse....TTFN
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Thanks everybody. Reality hasn't really hit me yet, but I really appreciate all your kind and encouraging words. Luckily I live very close to my family and my mom is here with me now. I just need a lot of Taylor Swift, Adele, and wine.
~Nikki~
Last Trip: February 2024
Next Trips: April 2024
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Sorry to hear you are going through a hard time Nikki. Been there, done that too. *sighs* But just know that it only means the best is yet to come for you. I promise! Just focus on yourself right now and surround yourself with good friends and family who love you. Do fun things with girlfriends - get your nails done, go to the movies, go shopping! Staying busy always helped me stay distracted when I went through the same thing. Just give it some time...
You WILL get through this lady!!!!
Paging Mr. Morrow... Mr. Tom Morrow. Please contact Mr. Johnson in the control tower to confirm your flight to the moon.
BC: 9/12, 7/13, 1/14, 5/14, 9/14, 1/15, 9/15, 9/16
GF: 9/16
SSR: 9/13
WL: 5/16
BW: 9/11
OKW: 7/10
AK: 6/09
BLT: 9/15
CBR: 8/07
ASMo 12/14
Offsite: 8/88
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I'm sorry you are going through this Nikki. The future will hold bigger, better and brighter things for you. You just have to take time to heal and then go on with your life.
ºoºKathyºoº TimeShare 12-12
GKTW June 2011,Off site Feb/March 2011
Dolphin and POFQ 8/10
POFQ Sept 08
ASMu Aug-Sept 07
Dolphin & CS-12/05. Mousefest & Dis Cruise
Dolphin & POR July 04,WDW-Dolphin June 02Dolphin 6/2000
Swan 6/99 -Dolphin March 98, March 94
+many more times offsite
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So sorry to hear you are going through such heartbreak.
On the bright side, this means you can find someone who will attend the next icot meet WITH you instead of just talking about him.
In all seriousness, you can get through this with your head held high and will find love again.
I'll meet you at the Rainbow Bridge.
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