De-Stressing

In the past I have done puzzles. It helped to focus on that task and forget about everything else. Currently it is walking to train for a 5k....of course traing at Epcot is a bonus :thumbsup::blush::cool:

I color! Yep, go ahead and laugh! My DH does! But for some reason, while I'm coloring, I don't think about anything except what I'm coloring. I can be stressed to the max, and sit down to color a small picture, and instantly start to feel the stress melt away!

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sonamae80;2447241 wrote: I color! Yep, go ahead and laugh! My DH does! But for some reason, while I'm coloring, I don't think about anything except what I'm coloring. I can be stressed to the max, and sit down to color a small picture, and instantly start to feel the stress melt away!

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I used to love to color. Great idea!

I play video games on the PS3, best stress relief for me.
Also, watch sports.

To mentally unwind I'll watch movies, play video games, etc but the feelings of stress are due to stress chemicals being released in the body and the best way to combat that is through physical exercise that will release the endorphins (good chemicals). So I'll bike, do martial arts, play hockey, etc.

Thank you for all the tips! There are days when I know I will be a mess if I don't get some exercise. Even though the stress makes me feel exhausted. Normally, I would get a massage, but that's sure not in the budget right now!

I wish it weren't so brutally cold out today. It would be nice to get out and do something.

And I love puzzles and coloring!! :mickey: I would not have thought to try those. I used to color with the girls all the time. I think we may have some coloring books in the basement. We also have some Disney Kincaid puzzles that everyone else bailed on. No reason not to finish them myself.

I've also promised myself that I'll step away from the school thing for a couple of days.

Many things.......I walk or do the elliptical. I scrapbook and organize photo albums......Cleaning is a big one. lol

If you don't work or have free time, start to volunteer on a regular schedule. Seeing how many problems others have may take your mind off of yours....Some suggestions: your local animal shelter, Habitat for Humanity, Make A Wish, or a food pantry.

Also....two years ago we started a slow downsizing process. I have never been a keeper of things and have always donated what we don't use but I wanted to take it even further. It wasn't about money but more about de-cluttering our lives and getting ready to move after my son is out of college.

That experience has cleared my mind more than I can even explain....It has also had an unexpected perk. We have made a lot of money through the process.

Sold my sons outdoor playset which we purchased 11 years ago for $500....sold my husbands 1970 receiver and turntable for $400.....skiis.....keyboard....gps....and the list goes on and on. We paid for our spring vacation ($3000) to Universal last year with everything we sold.....and the amazing thing is that we don't miss anything that we don't have anymore.

I guess my point is that de-cluttering my life has made me feel more relaxed and has also made us a little bit of money. I never realized the "stuff" we had around the house (mainly hidden in closets never seeing the light of day) was so valuable as a whole. You might want to try it. It may help de stress you and help out with the bills until your family gets over the hump.

If you don't find coloring books you can print them off the computer. There's a lot of cute Disney ones too. I have a puzzle app for my iPad that I use all the time. They don't take long to do, and you won't lose any pieces.

Good luck with DH being laid off. Mine was laid off for nearly 11 months. I went out of my mind. As time went on he got so depressed putting more stress on me. I feel your pain.

Well, usually I scrapbook. Though I haven't done that much lately! But, I also play games on pogo; free to join tons of games to keep you entertained and distracted! I read a lot, I am currently reading the fifth Harry Potter book, I just started reading that series in the last 6 months, I am a little late after the fad I suppose lol. I am thinking about taking of cross stitch or knitting....I have a ton of supplies from when my mom used to do it, so I have been tinkering with the idea of starting and using some of her left over supplies so they don't go to waste. I also enjoy puzzles as someone else mentioned. Only problem I found was I have about ten completed puzzles piled high under a bed in the spare bedroom laid out on posterboards....after they are completed I don't have the heart to dissemble them, but also don't know what the heck to do with them when completed....

NJGirl, great suggestions, thank you! I do volunteer, but it's mostly seasonal. I'll have to look into what I can do right now. Anything involving animals is out of the question because I want to take all of them home! And, thank you for the reminder on how good it feels to de-clutter! I have been listing things on ebay here and there. Stuff that used to be so important that I have and I don't feel even a twinge of regret letting them go.

Disney4us2, I think I actually have a bunch of coloring pages saved on my PC from when the girls were little. Disney ones of course! Now, to find the crayons.

Deedee73, it hasn't quite been a couple of months and hitting this lull is already taking DH towards depression. Thankfully he has some home projects to distract him. And, he's just been contacted about 3 different positions! Fingers crossed one of them works out!

TinkerbellT421, I used to do a lot of scrapbooking too, but now I do photobooks. I've got a couple of unfinished ones online that I could work on. The nice thing is that I can complete them and save them without it costing me anything. Then, when the budget opens back up I can order them.

Thank you so much to all of you! It really has helped me a lot to be reminded of things I can do to keep my mind and body occupied. My brain has just been stuck and I couldn't think of what to do with myself. You guys are great! :mickey:

I forgot about reading....when I first was laid off I did a ton of reading....All of the Stephanie Plum books....then went on to Catherine Coulters FBI series which are a mixture of crime and romance with the same main characters throughout the series. I still have the Catherine Coulter (14 books) and if you are interested in them give me a PM with your address and I will send them to you. Reading was a great escape!

It's easy to get into a funk....on top of what's going on, it's also dark, gloomy, cold winter and that can get depressing by itself. Hope you start to feel a little better soon!

I'm an avid reader too! I don't often buy books anymore. We have such a wonderful library system and I use it as much as possible.

That is so nice of you! I've never read any of her books, but I've had them recommended to me. I would hate to have you spend the money on postage though, when I can put them on my library list.

Beer - lots of beer! (Just kidding.)

I sing. I've been a member of a chorus for over 25 years, and even if I'm totally stressed out before rehearsal, I feel much better after making music with my friends, many of whom I consider "extended family". We sing, we laugh, we go out for dinner after rehearsal, and by the time I get home & ready for bed, I'm relaxed, mellow, and ready for a good night's sleep. :cloud9:

Several of us call rehearsal night "Therapy Night".